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writes:i had premarital sex wid my xbf.he used me to said he ii marry me.now i get a guy who luvs me and marry me.but i dont want to marry him like dis .i want my virginity back plssss help me...is there any treatment for that?...thnk u Reply to this Question
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reader, ashaw  +, writes (27 September 2010):
I agree with the previous post. I think the new guy will accept your situation if you tell him the truth, unless there are other cultural issues that I'm not familiar with.
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reader, lady_in_the_moon  +, writes (27 September 2010):
if you are living in a closed minded country(as i can tell from ur flag,no offense,im from the middle east), then it is not very easy to tell him that u have lost ur virginity... but that does not mean that there are some guys who don't understand what happened... if u want to know or get a close idea of what he''ll react, say something about some one(make it up) with similarity to ur situation...
but if he truly loves you for you, and for ur heart... then he won't have a prob with u not being a virgin!
although u could do surgery, and ur hymen will be as brand as new :P
best of luck!!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Unfortunately there is not. There are some surgeries to restore the hymen, but that doesn't make you a virgin again. Your best bet is honesty. Tell the new guy the truth. If he loves you, he will accept the fact that you aren't a virgin.
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