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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now.I wouldn't say that it is true love yet.He is very down to earth and understanding material.At the beginning we were very sexually active,in fact i met him through a 'one night stand'.I'm not denying the fact that he is good in bed,one of the best from the previous guys that i have slept with and that is the reason why i enjoy having sex so much.Lately,about a month ago we moved in together and he is starting to push me away,even when i intend to give him a simple kiss on the forehead or lips.When it comes to sex nowadays,it is always the same old thing.The positions,how it begins and how it ends.Although we still do have sex,it just feels like he is forcing himself to do it and he cannot wait to get it over with.I took some advice from some of my guy friends that suggested i get sexy lingerie,even after doing so he is still pushing me and giving excuses such as "i am sleepy,tired,not in the mood,we will do it really good tomorrow,etc".Currently i have decided to stop trying and i am actually considering cheating on him in order to stop making him think that i am desperate girl and at the same time getting my sexual desires filled elsewhere.What should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): cheating never helps, it only worsen the situation.
Just keep yourself busy doing other things.
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reader, xAx  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 cheating on him is not the best or even a good idea. and if you cheat on him, you will look desperate as you can't handle not having sex with your boyfriend so you go looking somewhere else.
in my opinion, i think that he is not used to serious relationship and that makes him scared. i think that you should try talking to him and asking if there is anything you can do for him or just plain and simple tell him how him rejecting for sex makes you feel and see how he responds.
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