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*sprake
writes:OK the weekend just gone has been rather rough on Saturday night my girlfriend told me everything was moving to fast.. i can understand what she means as we've only been together for a month... but Saturday night i thought we sorted everything out but then Sunday she broke up with me but told me its because shes not ready for a relationship right now but she still loves me..... i understand partly what shes saying because she did basically come out of a 3 year relationship but she tells me im perfect and no one has ever made her feel the same as me. what does that mean im so confused... and does that mean we might get back together
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): I think your girlfriend is still in love with her ex. She was with him for 3 years and quickly got in a relationship with you. You should just forget about her, shes just messing you about and keeping you hanging.
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reader, Kenj +, writes (27 September 2010):
 It could mean one of two things, either she is dumping you (may have found someone else already) but is too wimpy to say it strait or she wants a break as things are too fast for her or she feels trapped.
The best way to handle this is not to contact her at all now, just wait. If she hasnt met someone else the chances are she will start missing you and out of the blue will contact you.
If you do get back together, just remain that bit distant dont push things in your relationship. Dont tell her you love her or any of that. Give her time and space to fall in love and give yourself time and space to see if she is really right for you.
It can freak out some girls if a guy comes on too strong and too soon.
Also dont wait too long, go out meeting new people again if your with someone else and she wants you back then you can make that then. In other words dont put your life on hold for her.
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