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I'm in love with my sister-in-law's brother and everyone in my family is against it!

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Question - (27 September 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey, i am 17 and i am HEAD OVER HEELS in love with this guy thats 24 and he tells me that he is MADLY in love with me but....my ENTIRE family is against him he is my brothers wifes brother and omg he is amazing...he has a gf that is a couple months younger then me he just got out of prison for 7 yrs but he has spent all that time reading up on things books after books phsycology EVERYTHING he is like a damn geneis but we have a small past! im torn because i dont want her to get hurt cause of me but i am truely in love with him idk what to do this is really depressing me! i want to break out of this either get over him or be with him one! the only problem is he is goin to be in my life for the rest of my life together or not i dont wanna see him with another bitch it kills me inside UUUGH help me PLEASE my dad threatened to kill him if he fucked with me and 2 days ago we had sex in a van! WTF MAN

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A female reader, Avalon United Kingdom +, writes (28 September 2010):

Sounds like an ex-con with a penchant for underage girls. I can't imagine why your father wouldn't love this man.

Stop. Just stop. You're better than this. He does not love you. Your father loves you, though...listen to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010):

right this is insane! Its not the age difference thats a problem its the fact that for one hes sleeping with you in a van and two hes cheating on his girlfriend that had no idea whats going on. If he can cheat on her then he'll only do the same if he got with you.

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A female reader, wee_neko United States +, writes (28 September 2010):

You're 17. You're not in love. Seriously, ask him to get you a vibrator and cut all ties. It'll have less drama and you'll get what you want.

Sorry to be callous, but unless you want to end up getting your butt whupped (by his gf, your father, or even him - what was he in prison for anyways??) let your feelings pass and invest in an intimate buddy made of plastic.

Stop having sex with ex-cons in their VANS. A VAN woman.

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A male reader, The old Man? United States +, writes (28 September 2010):

The old Man? agony auntWow, this guy sounds like a real charmer!

He's 24, did 7 years in prison and is now having sex with a 17 year old in a van. Real class act there!

Being he HAS a girlfriend that he is cheating on, what do you suppose the chance would be that he would cheat on you?

As the old saying goes, if they'll cheat with you, they will have no problem cheating ON you.

I'm the last guy in the world to advise someone against an age difference relationship, but in this case,,,,

I'm right there with your dad!

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A female reader, maverick494 United States +, writes (28 September 2010):

This must be a joke. Seriously, I'm not buying it. He's been in prison since he was 17? He has a gf but he's had sex with you in a van? Yeah, this guy sounds like a gentleman. A perfect match. Nope, I cannot understand why anyone would be against this...Maybe it would be good for him to go back to prison? That way he'll be protected from your dad.

One tip: stop throwing around "WTF MAN", "bitch" and more of that colourful BS. It's so unfeminine.

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