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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I m 26 years old girl with many issues.I have amazing boyfriend,good,tolerant,calm,very rich,I get almoust everything what I want, but I never feel satisfied.I ve been surfing the net in search for help to my overcontrolling and agressive nature,even the most stupid things annoy me,like he didn t sit next to me at the moment,or he walked in front of me, it s enough sometimes to get me insane! I m aware this is not normal but I can t help myself!When I start to have this feelings,I cant pevent myself from exploding!We have been living together for one and a half year,but I became so bad that he decided to send me back to my country for some time,we re different nationalities but we live in neither his or mine country...Now it s been 3 weeks since i didin t see him,and i really miss him,but he says he s not sure he want s to be with me cause i m abuusive,and that i ll never change...I feel helpless,especially cause his hanging out with his friends all the time,he calls me though atlest 2 3 times per day,but when he tells me his with them at dinner or drinks i go crazy,start to insult him,my heart beats fast and i can t calm down untill he s back home! I know this is not ok,and that im doing everything to push him away but it s stronger than me!Please help me,what to do??? People tell me I m very beautifuland this is the card I was always playing on,but now I realized this is not nearly enough...I don t want to loose him,we got engaged 6 months ago,but marriage now is not in question..
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Looks arent everything, men need to be attracted to your mind not just your body. You need professional help that is the only way forward here and you need to have absolutely no contact with your man while you go through this. Search for a anger management class straight away and then sign yourself up to it, also attend a councellor, ring your man and tell him what help you are going to get and that you are not going to contact him until you have got the help you need, and stick to this dont contact him, this is something you need to do on your own independantly or it will never work. Everytime you want to contact him just tell yourself if i contact him now i will lose him forever, hope you get the help that you need.
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