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writes:I've been single for about 3 years now, mainly because I've been flat out busy and not really looking at all, I'm comfortable with that. Anyways I've been planning to go overseas on a holiday for a month which I leave for in a few weeks. Two months ago I met a girl who has completely blown me away. Over the past two months have been getting to know each other really well, the chemistry is phenonmenal!I don't believe in this concept of 'the one', I think there are multiple compatible people out there, however, this one is quite breathtaking in all aspects!I guess my question is should I just wait until I come back before I start anything or should I say/do something before I leave? I can tell she's very attracted to me but I think she's hesitant to do anything or has mixed emotions because I'm leaving. If there are particularly any women out there that can shed light on what they would be feeling if they were in my interest's shoes, and what I should perhaps do, then that would be appreciated! My gut feeling is that I just don't want to ruin something that sounds really special by leaving someone hanging for that period of time.Thanks!Thanks.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Its only a month its not that long really, tell her how you feel before you go and ask her will she wait for you. Good Luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): I would definitely hit her up before you left. That start is very similar to how my fiance and I started out... He was going across the country for 4 months and we had just met... But we clicked, and as soon as he approached me I accepted.. We talked as much as possible when he was gone, and picked back up when he came back. Waiting might be a bad idea, because she will have no idea whether or not she should be waiting for you. If she thinks you aren't interested, she might use your absence to find someone new.
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