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*aliprincess84
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months and recently had a foursome (MMFF) and a few weeks after that had threesome with the girl we had a foursome with. My boyfriend wanted to do it because he has never had a threesome or foursome before and because I am bisexual I agreed for it to happen. I have had threesomes before both MMF and FFM and enjoyed them for the most part. When we had the foursome I although did not a good experience because I felt the guys were more into the other girl and my boyfriend had sex with the other girl twice and had multiple orgasms with her and I didn't orgasm. I have to mention that we were all on ecstasy (MDMA) and I hooked up with the other guy but he couldn't satisfy me. My boyfriend also didn't have sex with me for long and couldn't stay hard with me. After watching him orgasm the second time from "pounding" the other girl I left them all at my house and went to the bar upset about the situation. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship. We have almost split up multiple times and I have a hard time communicating with each other. The issues come from my boyfriend not having a job or much income and I have to cover our expenses. I have never had that situation. After the bad experience with the foursome we have had more issues with trust and I have been jealous. I have the image in my head of him having sex with her and wonder about how good she felt to him and if he has thoughts of her. Even with all this I still allowed us to have a threesome with the girl. My boyfriend said that if I don't want to do anything we don't have to but I know he wanted to hook up with her again. He's said that he would have MMF threesome for me which I want. The girl we had the threesome with is moving outside the US and won't be around. During the threesome my boyfriend seemed mesmerized with the girl again like giving her more oral sex, making out, getting more hard for her. He was asking exactly when she's leaving, etc. I am wondering if I should continue with our relationship?
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reader, katoxox +, writes (2 October 2010):
wow i cant find one reason on why you should stay in this relationship, he doesnt work and the fact that he may want to be with this other girl more than you. I say Don't stay.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 i think you should cut your ties hunny and go find a man that deserves you.
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reader, caliprincess84 +, writes (1 October 2010):
caliprincess84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI was not in the very beginning of our relationship covering his expenses, things seemed to get bad for him all of a sudden. Because I cared and have feelings of love for him I have tried to be supportive. I enjoy his company and he is intelligent, adventurous and full of energy. On the negative he is arrogant, reckless, irresponsible and not respectful of my feelings and boundaries. He is addicted to marijuana which makes a large financial drain and has been slow at finding work. He also is a big interracial dater and with me and him sharing the same race, I don't know if I am as attractive to him.
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reader, escribanus  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 I think you do not have a boyfriend but a sex pet. You think that because you have purchased him by covering some of his lack of income, you are her owner and that he must always give you the sex performance you have payd for.
For him the thing may look different, he has a girl that gives him money, that he can fuck with and the best of all, that allows him to realice sex fantasies.
There is no love on that relation. So, get clear about the kind of relation you have. A cow will always be a cow, no matter how hard you call it a dragon.
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (27 September 2010):
This was a really bad path to go down, having 3somes and 4somes in relationships are not good for the simple fact is its very hard to recover from them, jelousy sets in and its hard to get the image out of your head, as for the ecstasy i dont agree with drugs i have a very strong dislike of them but not going to judge you, but i think you'se may have wrecked your relationship as the mental image has left its mark now.
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