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writes:Hi,I've used this site before and found it really helpful so here we go again. I have been with my partner for eight years now and he's great to me a really nice guy. Two weeks ago i met someone while i was out a friend of a friend ans he was really nice to me he walked me home nothing happened. The next weekend same thing we laughed and talked nothing happened. Sent him and e-mail and now he's not talking to me. That's not what bother's me he lives in my village which is very very small i'm terrified my b/f is going to find out not to mention the scandal where i live. He's 15 i'm 26. What do i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe guy is no longer talking to me which doesn't bother me. Thank you so much much for you advice. I know the underlying issue is my lack of confidence somebody is nice to me and i appreicated it. I am going to try and approach the siuation with my b/f and explain that nothing happened. I am just worried about it getting out where i live. However what's more important to me is my B/f. I'm aware that the alchohol lowered what little sense i have as i said no more for me.
Once again thank you for taking the time to try and help me.
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reader, The old Man?  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 This is a change of pace, I actually agree with everyone!
Here's my two cents worth..
If you're in a relationship with one person, you shouldn't be out getting "attention" from anyone else.
Add alcohol, and things can get real ugly real fast!
If you truly love your BF, you need to think of how he would feel. Ask yourself this. If he was out getting some attention from another girl, would you find that acceptable?
If he told you that nothing happened, would there still be that tiny little cloud of doubt?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): Im a little confuse by your question ... why r you worrying if nothing happened? and who is no longer speaking to you, the guy or your boyfriend? and if the guy is 15 and u r 26 I suggest u stop this right now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): Agreed. Tell him you innocently walked home w/him and nothing happened and you are concerned about perceptions now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know your right i'm just scared of his reaction. I may have messed things up over nothing. I was enjoying positive attention from someone else. I was also drinking and it worrys me i may have lost control. No more drinking for me.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (27 September 2010):
 I think you should tell your BF about this. Since nothing happened, you should have nothing to worry about. This is also the kind of thing that is much better for him to hear from you and not from someone else.
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