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male
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey, well here's the deal, I'm 15 and I going out with a girl who's almost 15 (14 tuning 15 next month). She's pretty awesome, I used to like her before we dated. She used to avoid me, but then she said she liked me because how she states "I'm really nice, and mature both physically and mentally." We dated, and few days ago, she was at my house, both alone, I was all jokingly all innocent and played her some love songs on the piano while singing. She sat on top (Grand Piano) and got all flirty. Well, we ended up kissing, then uh, I well ate her out, and well broke her hymen with my tongue. It got pretty awkward. Then the days after, she like avoids me? I mean like she flirts with other guys now, and talk to me unlike before, she was warmer and all lovable. Now she's colder. I feel so used! I tried to talk to her, but I can't get her on hold, she always finds a way to run away. So any help? Anyone? Appreciated.
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reader, Indie23  +, writes (29 September 2010):
 The definition of losing your virginity is penetration of the vagina with the penis, so no, she hasn't lost her virginity.
I think the reason she is avoiding you is because she is embarrassed or feels awkward about what happened. She's also probably feeling the same sort of confusion you are.
You should just talk to her about it. It's an awkward situation for both of you but if you have a calm conversation about it, she will probably feel less embarrassed. Just explain to her how you feel about what happened and ask her what she feels. Get everything out in the open and then go from there.
Best Wishes, Indie.
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