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writes:I have been in a relationship for about six years and I found out that my boyfriend had cheated on me about six monts ago. I forgave him for what he did because he confessed, but he also included the fact that the girl is pregant. So im furiated at the fact there is no a baby on the way that isnt ours. We had talked about getting married and he said that he didnt want to start a marriage with a lie. So he told me beforehand. I still love him and want to be with him because he said that he'll never do it againm. He also said he doesnt have any feelings towards her but I dont kno if I believe him. I need to know if I made the right decision. Help please...should I hold on?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (28 September 2010):
When he goes to see his daughter, will you be able to handle it?
When you want to go on holiday, and can't afford it, will you he able to handle it?
When he brings his daughter around and you see her all happy with him, knowing she belongs to another women, will you be able to handle it?
When you want to buy a house, and can't because the money goes to the child, will you be able to handle it?
If he cheated, do you really think he loves you enough?
The fact he says he doesn't love or care about this other women that is the mother of his child, shows him up as a crap man.
What if you have a child and the two children have to meet?
What happens when you never again are his number 1 person?
Sorry, but it was a mistake to continue with him. You will never be number 1 in his life, you'll never have the lifestyle you crave, there will be a constant reminder than he cheated, and he is a louse. There is no real hope for you two.
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