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writes:Well me and my boyfriend split about three weeks a go. He told me he didn't want to be with me at first and it was a definate no, then we met a couple of days later and i asked him again and he didn't he didn't think so, but he didn't know whether we were going to get back together. I have been with him for two years now on and off and our last split was for six months. He went out last saturday and I ended up with twelve missed calls and four text messages off him, asking who i was with and stuff. If i go anywhere he still takes a big interest, sometimes he ignores me if i text him like we went to the cinema the other night he payed and we had a really good night and he was texting me all night. I sent him three texts and he ignored them all. So i rang him later that night and asked why he did this and I told him i was coming round to speak to him he agreed and we spoke and he told me he missed me and was glad i came. I have text him today and he hasn't text me back i dont know what to do and would like to know if he is just leading me on or does actually want to get back together?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI wont, he is just so weird. One minute he is loving towards me the next he doesn't speak to me. He is going out tonight so no doubt he will be ringing and texting me. I'm kind of happy atleast i know how he really feels when he has had a drink. He is coming to mine Monday and we are going to talk about things :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 October 2010):
 yes good for you, running after men will only lead to heartache, its in his hands now so dont contact him, let him contact you if he is ready. But dont sleep with him again if he is not ready to commit stay strong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell he told me the night before last he didn't know what he wanted and he needed time to think. So I haven't text him or rang him since and am going to wait on him to do it to me. I'm done with running he can do some now...
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (28 September 2010):
There really is only one way to find the answer to this and its to ask him clean out will he get back with you, if he says no then you no your answer be sure to tell him that its the last time you will ask him keep to your word and he will start taking you more seriously
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know thats how it seems to me as well I just don't want to let go incase there is another chance. He says he doesn't want to hurt me but then he is doing that more by ignoring me. I thought he was leading me on but then again why would he take me out and spend money on me if that was the case? why would he make the effort anyway
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (27 September 2010):
Sounds to me like he is leading you on, ask him straight out if there is a chance of you being together and if the answer is no, stop texting him and dont answer his phone calls, and start going out with friends and meeting new people.
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