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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there this is going to sounds on but on when on website and found a man and we are texting away but have not met yet but he told me he had a child and that he had split with his e.x but was staying in the same house untill he got money together to move out once he had started texting me he had got the money together and was saying to me that he told her that he was moving out and she told him that she was sick and that she needed him to stay in the house to mind their child and her. He told me that he does not know what to do but he wants me in his life and he even says that i do not have to stick around if i do not want to but he would not want to ruin my happiness but he feels that he has to stay in house to be there for his child if she was not sick he would be gone from there. the problem is i really like and i do not want to stop being in contact with him .the question is should i met up with him and if we do hit it off .how should i best be there for him ?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 September 2010):
Stop. If she found out that he was talking to another women when she has cancer, imagine for one second how that would look. And that's assuming he is telling the truth. I would stop for sure.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell his e.x has cancer and he not sure how long she will be around for we have only text we have not met yet and i am not sure if i should met or just stop the whole thing altogether ?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2010):
Sure she's 'ill'. Sure he was 'trying to get the money together'. Sure he'd 'be gone from there'.
He's a cheat. And you're falling for it. He could have left any time he liked. He didn't. He never will. The excuses he's given are timeless classics that all lying men give when they want to cheat. Read this site. You'll find the same excuses from other cheating men too.
Be there for him? You shouldn't be there at all.
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