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*iana123
writes:Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i never did not a drop of blood, nd i need to kno is that ok or should i consiter talking to a doctor because its not normal ive had sex a couple of times but scared because of my experience with my first time of being sexual active please help thxz:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): ok so heres what happened to me. i got fingered with 4 fingers today and then after that me and my bf had sex. it didnt hurt at all and i was really confused but i have been fingered before and that made me bleed. sex is not as bad as fingering depending on what the guy does.
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if you have been fingered before then you are looser and it wont stretch and hurt when you have sex. if he doesnt do it properly you wont bleed either
hope that helped :)
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reader, Diana123 +, writes (29 September 2010):
Diana123 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankzz for ur answers :)
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reader, WhateverMovesThee +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Some girls are born without hymens or it breaks early on and no, it doesn't mean they're not virgins. You stop being a virgin when a penis enters your vagina :p OR, the hymen doesn't break the first time. My friend didn't bleed until her third time. Another possibility is that you were so aroused, there was no pain. Soo everything's ok! :)
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reader, Sweety Pie  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 I didn't bleed, but it hurt a tiny bit. Everyone is different :)
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reader, 21w +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Yeah, just don't worry about it! My first time also wasn't bad or bloody. I felt weird a bit at first because my bf who was my first would think that I was lying that I was a virgin! But he was good and knew that not every girl has those symptoms. We all are just different. ))
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reader, RennieGeek +, writes (27 September 2010):
This is normal. I in fact had no problems my first time. Most women have what is called a hymen, a thin layer of skin or something similar inside the vagina, this is what breaks (and hurts) and causes bleeding. In some women it is thicker, and causes more pain, and some women don't have it at all and thus no bleeding or pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): It's completely fine that you didn't bleed. Not every girl does. I didn't bleed the first time I had sex and it actually wasn't painful for me at all either. I wouldn't worry about it anymore if I were you
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