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Should I sleep with him if I don't want to have sex?

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Question - (27 September 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2010)
A female Singapore age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Should I continue to sleep with my boyfriend if he has asked for sex which I don't want to give?

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A male reader, slimfish New Zealand +, writes (28 September 2010):

slimfish agony auntyou dont HAVE to have sex....ever. its your body and he must respect that.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010):

I'm fairly certain she means "sleep next to"

Yea, as long as it doesn't make you feel uncomfortable it should be fine

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (27 September 2010):

Odds agony auntYou say "continue" to sleep with him - I'll assume that means you already are.

You should only make decisions which you are comfortable with. Especially as just a girlfriend, with no shred of "wifely duty," you have no obligation to do anything you don't like.

The flip side of that is that he is not obligated to stay with you if you stop sleeping with him. It would be best to talk to him about it, and decide from there, rather than suddenyl cutting him off or just deciding to stay quiet.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010):

He should respect your choice and your body and should not pressure or force you into anything.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (27 September 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntSimple answer no, never sleep with someone if you dont want to.

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A female reader, DanceInTheDark Canada +, writes (27 September 2010):

DanceInTheDark agony auntNo. You should only be having sex if you want to do it.

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