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writes:Hi, I'm just writing to ask for people opinons concerning a one night stand.I met the guy in a club and we quickly ended up back at mine and half way into sex he said "im not going to come inside you". i dont know why but i felt ashamed and pushed him off. Why did he say that? i couldnt have cared less if he was going to or not but its the fact he said it that bothers me?Thanks xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2010): HAHAHAHA thats what you get for meeting a guy in a club and not someplace formal and classy. Youre not gonna get what you want in every way if thats where youre looking for it missy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2010): you gave it up the first time with him...i'm sure its not the first time youve done it...whats the problem? what do you expect from a guy you do the first time you meet him. gimme a break! you are one of those girls!
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (28 September 2010):
 Actually, I think he was trying to put you at ease if you weren't using a condom. He was trying to let you know that he wasn't going to put you at risk of pregnancy if he didn't have to. Hopefully you were because pulling out doesn't mean that you can't get pregnant or catch an STD.
Were you feeling more ashamed that you were having a one-night stand in the first place, because what he said wasn't a demeaning thing.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (28 September 2010):
Were you using a condom? If not, then it might have been a vain attempt to prevent pregnancy. Either than, or he's a bit weird.
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reader, Battista +, writes (28 September 2010):
I reckon he probably assumed you would be worried about getting pregnant. You don't say if you were using protection or not, but that would be my guess.
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