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writes:Hey guys just wondering if anyone can shed some light on this situation as i am going crazy thinking about it... right so my older sister is in a theatre production and asked me and my cuzine to come and watch it and we did... now there was this really goodlooking guy in it with her, so at the end of the play we kinda had a brief introduction etc... anyways me and my cuz then left...at that point he must have asked my sis about me and said uno could you uno see if she likes me/ could u hook us up etc... anyways so my sis invited us to a show that they had uptown and asked if i would be interested in staying with them lot in the hotel... we agreed and went away with the theatre group... after there show up town we all went out and me and this guy kissed and messed around (didnt sleep with him but he came back to the room and we were just fooling around)anyways he took my number in the morning and hasnt called me... its only been 1.5 days but i dnt know why he hasnt called... any particular reason, my sis asked him whether he called me or not but he said he will when he gets a chance, hes kinda been busy... is it weird if he doesnt ring... do u think he likes me... im sooo unsure and confused i hope he doesnt think im easy or anything??? any ideas please help soorrry its really long Reply to this Question
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reader, ReturningtheFavor  +, writes (28 September 2010):
Sounds like solid advice from Caring Guy, I wouldnt jump the gun here. 1.5 days is really soon, he might be trying to play it "cool" and giving it a few days. its all about all about the image we convey to our peers and the opposite sex. Too soon makes him seem weak and desperate, making you wait, makes him seem cool and incontrol. Time will tell, but I wouldnt worry yet! Good luck!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (27 September 2010):
I thought you were going to say he hadn't called in a week or something. You're jumping a little too much just at the moment. It's only been 1.5 days. Always work on the 3 day, then five, then 14 day rule. If he's not called in 3 days, chances are he's not interested. If not in 5, almost certainly not interested. After 14 days, he's not bothered at all. So just give him a few more days and see whether he calls. 1.5 days is nothing.
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