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anonymous
writes:so my boyfriend wen out this friday to a college party at his school he commutes....and i leave about 4 blocks from his school he invited me but i decided not to go cuz i just wouldnt feel comftorable there....anyways the next day he gets home around3 in the afternoon i let it go but i was a bit suspicious since i know there is a friend of his that is a girl that has a crush on him and she dorms...then saturday he invited me to another party with some other friend of his and i couldnt go cuz i already had plans with my friends so when he calls me today he says hey in a really like dead voice and i was like hi babe and then he was like hi and stayed shut...then it got to akward so i said imma just call you later ive been calling and i feel like he is ignoring me idk if he actually did something wrong this weeekend or if he is just upset at me for not goinghe calls me and tell me he was busy doing hw all day and his tone once again was wierd like if something was wrong i asked him if he was upset at me or something and then he said and then he told me he just called to say goodnight and he just plain and simply said goodnight which he doesnt do he would say goodnight i love you so i know something is upso should i just let it go and give him space or should i try to see whats going on i feel a bit suspicious of all this? what should i do in this situation because i dont want to seem like im all up one him but i dont want him to keep acting wierd
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Confront him, you need to be open and honest with him, if its easier to text than phone him then do that, just ask him straight out what is wrong because you feel he has been very distant with you at the weekend and ask him what is wrong? its all you can do, its up to him then to tell you whats causing him to be so distant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2010): Something is definitely up-- but you don't know what. Give him some space to flush things out and then see if he comes to you. If not, go to him (only after giving him some space). It could be a vast number of things, so don't get it fixed in your mind that it's one specific thing (like cheating, etc).. Stay open minded and approach him gently. Whatever this is has definitely torn him up.
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