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First time blowjob.any tips?

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Question - (3 October 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 5 October 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

ive never done a blow job before and was thinkin about doin one for a guy i like a lot... any sugesstions on what the best way to do it is? hes had some experience so i dont wanna seem like its my 1st time

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A male reader, mrvhappy United Kingdom +, writes (5 October 2010):

Hi,

Set some boundaries..ie can he cum in yr mouth etc

Another tip, lick his shaft like a lollipop and dont forget to suck his balls (individually!!).

If he's not circumsized, dont pull his foreskin back too much as that can be v painfull.

Look into his eyes when you are doing it and show him how much you enjoy it....it will send him wild!!

As you get more experienced, you will know what he likes/dislikes..as all guys are different.

Good Kuck...he sounds like a lucky guy!! ;)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

Start out slow kissing and then slowly move down to unbutton his pants while ur kissing his stomach and loosening things...the slowness always friggin turns me on. Usually I like a girl to start suckin at a moderate pace then work her way into it faster...swirl ur tongue around thatll prob put him in another dimension lol. Also, gently rub his balls, mine tighten quite a bit during oral and when they are just simply touched lol its absolutely amazing, he may like that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

Men like it when a woman can go "deep throat." Here is a practice tip....while you are brushing your teeth, brush your tongue as well and each brush back towards the throat each day..you will gag but that is natural, just keep brushing until you can learn to control your reflex gag and go back further and further each day you brush your tongue...then you just might be ready to go deep throat.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

Oral sex is pretty hard to mess up... Unless you accidentally scrape his penis with your teeth. So as long as you're mindful where that's concerned, you should be okay.

...Oh, and if you have a lip ring you might want to think about removing that beforehand. In my experience lip rings sometimes have a tendency to come out during oral sex, and can end up God knows where.

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