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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me a few months ago and I'm still not over him because he was my first love and everything. He said that he broke up with me because of the distance but after a few conversations he revealed that he's no longer in love with me. Everyone else still thinks that he's lying and that he did it for me but they don't know that a few weeks before the break up he started acting distant and everything and we kept fighting, and he kept talking about how hot celebrities are but when I got upset he told me that he didn't mean any of that and that he was joking. He's the type that jokes a lot so I guess that's believe-able. But even though we had fights and everything, he was really concerned when he read one of my blog posts about me wanting to kill myself. I'm not sure what's going on and his best friend told me that there's a reason for the break up that he isn't telling me because "he isn't so stupid as to break up with someone like me". And when he broke up with me, his parting words was "I hope you find someone much better, no, I know you will, because you're a great girl and I mean it from the bottom of my heart. I hope you find someone who you could meet more often, more often than I could meet you." So did he break up with me because of the distance or lost feelings?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much.
Uhm, I didn't want to kill myself because of him, there were other reasons that accumulated to that, but they are resolved now so I'm fine. Thanks again (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): If your bf broke up with a few months ago...then he is NOT playing or joking around. My advice to you is to work on healing your heart, and getting over whatever feelings you have for him, but relationship self help books and go on with your life. At this point, it doesn't matter why he broke it off with you...he is gone and he told you why. I don't think he was ever in love with you because depending on how long you guys were in a relationship, you just don't fall out of love with someone and walk away from them over something as distance.
If you feel like "killing yourself" I advice you to get therapy ASAP...don't walk..run honey because, no man is worth you taking your precious life over.
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