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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:My husband is tall dark handsome and my best friend.Due to past abuse and other issues I have a severe (unnecessary ) prejudice against men, yet I somehow need their approval.I have always had sexual issues but my first husband was my first partner.My current husband is my second and last spring I had sex with his brother.I haven't seen him since, and my husband knows but isn't too concerned about it.He is loving toward me but he never cries and rarely shows emotion.I fantasize about his (older) brother, who by all standards is an ass and far less attractive than my husband.Am I desperate for approval or crazy?Both of my husbands have been great guys and I run away in one way or another.Why?!
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reader, guitar_dude  +, writes (3 October 2010):
Definately deep issues here if you ask me and therepy would seem to be the only solution. Logically you should tell the older brother to stay well away, but logic has very little to do why you fanatasize about your brother in law is it? Specialist help for you and your husband is the only answer!
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (3 October 2010):
you seem like a kind hearted girl
but with a self esteam issues,
i'd rather you seeing a specialist
to save your good marriage,
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): Therapy is really the only option here, lovely. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): You are ruining your life like this.You better stick to your Hubby and forget about the bro.
Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): You have self esteem issues and you shouldn't be married or in a committed relationship...period. I wouldn't be shocked if your husband cheats on you...most men would.
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