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writes:Hey Everyone,So this summer me and my dad went on vacation on a cruise to Alaska.We were having a lot of fun and I met tons of people that I hung out with.We kinda formed a group that we hung out with with 4 guys and 3 girls.There was one girl that i liked for the cruise and I asked my friend Bruce to tell me what he thought if she liked me back and he said he thought so. So One Night at the pool I took the girl aside and asked What she thought of me. She said she liked me alot and I told her I liked her. We kissed etc. I really liked spending time with the group and especially her. The cruise was in The very beginning of august and now its october. So it's been two months. I've been talking to her on facebook and stuff and I really miss her. Unfortunately, the past week we haven't talked much at all. I tried to start a convo but she didn't see it or ignored it 8( Recently shes all ive been able to think of. We're going to try to arrange a time for when we can see eachother again which will probably be in march, when she comes to visit her aunt who lives in the same city as I do. I'm really looking forward to that, but I don't know what to do until she comes. I feel like I need to see her right now.. Advice? Thanks Alot 8)
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reader, malawesome +, writes (7 October 2010):
malawesome is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really apprichate your support it means alot.
And I completely understand what you mean by people dont just meet that way.
As of now, its not working so well though :(
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reader, JazzedUp  +, writes (6 October 2010):
 I do hope so. And I hope this all works for you too. And I think it will. People don't just "meet" on a trip like that. They come into each other's lives for a reason. There's a reason she wasn't just another passenger. One of my favorite quotes says, "It doesn't matter how often you read the Bible, Tanakh, Qur'an, Torah, Koran, Omega Book, or whichever divine text you prefer, the one thing you won't find in the pages of those books or any other book is the Whereabouts of Happiness. To find that you must read your own heart, and turn the pages of your life"- Pope Palpatine. Happiness lies in different places for different people, just don't give up on it if things get difficult.
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reader, malawesome +, writes (5 October 2010):
malawesome is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow I have alotta respect for you man.
Thats true about the last two years of high school.
but there'll be a spot for you after she graduates you seem like a legit guy.
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reader, JazzedUp +, writes (4 October 2010):
I do miss her a lot. We aren't together but it wasn't distance that ended it, it was our ages. She was two years younger than me and I got accepted to college in Boise and we live in Alabama and Tennessee, so I told her that I knew there was someone better out there for her and that we should just be friends at least until she's out of high school and out in the world herself. I do regret it, but I know it was the right thing to do. I miss her like crazy but we talk on skype like times a week. I still write her letters, and I still call her. I honestly hope that her feelings remain after she graduates, but I couldn't ruin her remaining 2 years of high school by making her not date anyone by waiting till she was out of school so we could be together.
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reader, malawesome +, writes (4 October 2010):
malawesome is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help man it means alot.
And ill try skype, i miss her like crazy.
Wow its weird how that happened on the same cruise!
Do you miss the girl you were with? what have you been doing?
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reader, JazzedUp +, writes (3 October 2010):
Dude, the same thing happened to me on the same cruise. I went with my sister and her fiance on an Alaskan cruise and I met a girl who lived in the state neighboring me. We talked, kissed, etc and it turned out really well. In most aspects of life, when something goes that good with a person of the opposite sex, its always hard to get them out of your mind, so don't fight it. I look at it (being a Christian) as God at work that you two met, or you may call it fate. Whatever does your do's. All the same, meeting up with her is a wonderful idea. Also, it may seem ancient, but acquire her address and write her letters and mail them to her. It follows the same aspect of writing your girl a note at school rather than texting her. To girls, when you take the time to write out a 2 or 3 page letter, it shows you care. As for her not talking to you, she could very well be grounded for some reason or another. It happens to girls more than guys and usually computer privileges are one of the things taken. Just be patient. Don't send her a hundred messages, just wait. If you do write her, don't mention not being able to talk on facebook, just ask about her and give a little info of how you've been. Oh, and I would suggest getting SKYPE. Skype had revolutionized long distance relationships allowing people to be able to see each other from one side of the world to the other. It is free and can help shorten the distance between you. Hope this helps, below is a link if you want to try skype. http://www.skype.com/intl/en-us/home
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