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*iss williamz
writes:Dear cupid,am in a dilemma. Am torn apart i dont know what to choose please help.I was in a relationship for almost 3yrs with my ex boyfriend. It was a long distance relationship. I loved this man so much and i still do.During this 3yrs all was well until when he changed stopped communicating with and whenever i ask he acted cool and so late he posted pictures of him and a specific girl on one social ne work bt i never askeed hgm he went on slept with another girl but i forgave him coz i undastood that he is a man and he has neeeds but he never changed ithen called it quits on him. I stayed quiet ikept on seeing his pictures with that girl but i decided to accept the fact that he is moving on so i shud do the same. A month after our break up he called mejust to say hi i was friendly and i talked to him he kept calling me and all until recently he has apologizin and he wants me back and all.My problem comes here now i still have a thing for him but at times iget flashbacks of him and the other gurl and i hate him. I dont trust him i keep on asking myself he never treated mf right then will he do it now? Is he changed?is he foreal? and oneside i love him thats why am confused help me ur answer will change my life completel.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 I think you should move on. He casually posted pictures of himself and another girl when he was dating you right? He was disrespectful and completely inconsiderate. Without trust, your relationship would suffer anyway because you will always remember how vile he once was and there is always the possibility that he will revert back to that disrespectful man he once was and probably still is. Just move on and save yourself the trouble of going through more heartache.
I hope that helps.
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