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writes: Hello.I really like this one person in my class. I've liked him for more than a year now and he doesn't know about it. I really want to tell him but I fear rejection. Due to which I haven't really even displayed any remote emotions of liking him or anything. Initially I din't know him too well, but now we're pretty good friends, like very good. And I know he doesn't like me or else he would've done something about it. So now, I'm actually pretty sick feeling bad about not being liked back and therefore I want to get over him. But considering we're pretty good friends and study together, its really hard to do so. So can anyone please suggest me ways to get over him ? Although secretly I don't want to, but I feel terrible, so I just need to get over him ! Reply to this Question
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reader, Synad  +, writes (3 October 2010):
I my self am in this situation with a girl and know how difficult it is You cant get over him if you try it will eat away at your heart until you are deppressed everyday. Stay friends with him and build on that friendship he may feel the same way you do but is hiding it aswell. Pep talk yourself in your mind to build some courage Ignore all doubts get him alone and tell him how you feel this is the onley way you will ever feel at peace even if you are regected that pain will fade with time.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (3 October 2010):
 I'd say it's a very good starting point that you are very good friends. Can't you just accept that for now because it would be a shame to try and get over him when really he's done nothing wrong. Love can initially start from friendship.. Maybe he is a bit shy on that one, give it more time and just enjoy it. Suggest a friendly outting together, cinema, or something mild and if he wants to socialize with you that way , i would say that he may like you more than what you think.
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