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She is separated, not divorced, is it worth spending my time, I do care for her??

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Question - (3 October 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 October 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm in my early 30's. Have been married before and went through a horrific experience with the seperation. It's been a few years and I just started to get back into the swing of things and I'm now getting serious with this woman.

She is appx the same age as me. When we first started our relationship she told me that she "is still married" but going through a divorce. After being with her for 5 months she still sees her husband who wants to be with her but she says she does not. She moved out of their house 2 years ago and her friends all know about me and her parents do as well. She says they just haven't gotten around to the final discussion about divorce.

Everytime that she goes out with him for dinner or gets a text message from him it kills a little piece of her inside of me and i'm starting to regret being with her. I've tried to talk with her about this and she says she thinks it will happen this year but can't put an exact time/date on it. I truly like this girl and she's such an amazing woman, hence the reason i'm hanging in there. I just would like another perspective on this......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010):

Don't date her or develope any more feelings for her because, she is still married. It's that simple.

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