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36-40,
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writes:Im a single mother and the father of my child (my ex) is emotionally abusive and keeps walking over me..what can i do/
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reader, Jeffro1977  +, writes (3 October 2010):
If you have a good support group around you Like a helpful mom. You can probably avoid talking to him completely. If he is verbally abusive he lost the privileges of talking to you. Thats the nice thing about him being an ex. If your mom isn't that supportive, go get yourself a beefy man who has a great personality. Dude will shut the hell up, promise ^^
The court is also on your side, lots of things you can do there to mess up his life. Take his money and buy yourself a nice new B/F
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reader, petina1  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Keep your personal distance away from him. If he wants contact with the child and you are okay with that, make him have the contact away from your home, in another place without you being involved. Map yourself a new life out. You could have low self esteem which can be improved on in many ways and that would be the key to how you view the situation in the long run. I found it helped me when i was in that position was to go in to adult education. I was able to find out what i was good at and that in itself can make you stronger. Have you family that you can get involved with more or friends to rally around when he's in the vicinity. A distraction from him could help. Hoope this helps
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