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writes:y dont girls like me, at school there mean to me, call me names for no reason and dont really know me at all. Im in the football A team, top 5 for athletics in my year, Im not disgusting, Im very polite and haven't said a mean word to any girl. though they're is one girl who is one minute nice to me then the next mean to me, I'm nice to her, I let her in my garden to climb into hers when she locks herself out. i'm only attracted to one girl in my school, who isnt mean to me. so y r the others mean to me Reply to this Question
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reader, Duckyhelp +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Try to not let it bother you. The girls who are mean to you are stupid and dont realise what they are missing out on. If you carry on looking after yourself and do well in school, then you will get what you desire and show everyone wrong. The movie "just friends" highlights this. He wasnt popular and hated by guys and girls, but after high school and proved himself :)
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Maybe they are jealous, or in love but know you dont like them back that way? A very childish way to show interest is by being mean to the person you like.
Perhaps it is time to ask why they are this way? Stand up for yourself. Tell them to either be nice or leave you alone.
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reader, blindbetty  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 These words "I let her in my garden to climb into hers when she locks herself out" sound like something from a song...you are poetic and don't even realize it. Have you seen the movie "Post Grad". Just shake it off and don't take it personally...life changes are goin on and you are going to be awesome when you grow up...grown women want stability, loyalty, politeness and of course decent looks and fresh breath, LOL. Just stay focused on yourself and career goals, keep yourself educated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): Hey
You have a lot to feel proud about ! Feel good about yourself and that you have achieved much more than just call other people names !
They are probably mean to you because they are jealous of your success ! Girls do that all the time.
Don't even bother ! you're much better off than them !
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reader, SillyB +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Because you don't stand up for yourself. YOu need to have some attitude, be confident and when you talk back - say it loudly so everyone hears you. Sorry hun, but I've noticed in life the people that are firm, sometimes complain and call people on BS get alot more respect than the quiet ones.
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