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female
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30-35,
*ulu55
writes:My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years and everything was good..he's just really immature..and since i'm his first girlfriend he just seems really unexperienced and clumsy in a way..he makes jokes that ruin the moment..I don't even want to make out with him anymore because of how he acts sometimes and i've talked to hime about this before but he doesnt know how to fix it..i dont know what to do about this..we haven't had sex yet and i dont really plan to right now, i don't really feel like doing anything sexual right now because i've been really busy and we never really have some time alone, which i'm ok with because i just like hanging out and cuddling..but he deffinetly want's more..i dont know what to do about this..i'm not even sure how to feel..
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reader, lulu55 +, writes (3 October 2010):
lulu55 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you..i think i will be patient, because this guy is amazing..it's just he needs some work, and i'm willing to wait..i just he changes soon because it does get a bit aggrivating at times.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): Bravo to you for not giving in to anything!
Yes, he sounds a bit immature and maturity comes with age. Most guys mature around 30...he's got some years of work ahead of him. You can try to be patient with him but in my experience its best you should find someone at your maturity level cause you could easily develop further frustrations with each other and that can create adverse emotion between you two and possibly ruin any friendship. If you told this guy youd wanna split because you felt he needed to grow up a bit, he shouldnt be offended. Its normal for his age to act in such a way and he needs to understand that you may not be looking for that right now, respectively. Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): Well , it is a scientific fact that guys take time to mature. Give him time, he will mature. Btw you have a chance to mould him in a mature person.
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