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writes:My bf is going to a strip club for his mates stag. I'm obviously not going to say anything. But is is abnormal that this makes me really uncomfortable?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 No, its not abnormal. It is a natural reaction. But try not to think too much about it. Just lay down the ground rules: no touching. He can look but not touch, and no lap dances either. Tell him where your limit goes, and you could have a little chat about how he feels about this.
Personally I have no objections to strip clubs and never have been bothered by them, and if my boyfriend wanted to go I'd say its fine. But then I wanted to go to one myself just to have a look, and even though I in theory was okay with it I felt uncomfortable while I was there. It was an interesting experience though, and I still don't mind my boyfriend going, but I wont say Im totally cool with it. Something about strip clubs does make me feel uncomfortable, even though my logic can't see why. I guess its just an unusual scene. So don't worry... I think it is quite normal to feel the way you do.
Have you ever been to a stop club yourself though? Maybe it would be a good idea to go so that you see for yourself what it is all about, so that you don't make up fantasies in your head about what is going on in there. Most strip clubs have a "no touching allowed"-policy.
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