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*izbeckyz0818
writes:I have a coworker that I hang out with a lot. We started out as lunch buddies and then about his intentions though because at work, we flirt with each other and he is always nvading my personal space like pulling my hair or trying to steal my phone. We've even sat in the car and have had good long intimate conversations about our past relationnships. We're both single and share a lot in common. But, these past couple of times that we've hung out, he acts differently, almost like he's ignoring me and doesn't try to touch me. He used to hug me before at the end of the night but lately he just high fives me when I'm about to leave. We went to a nightclub two days to see a performer and spent the whole time standing behind me and kind of kept his distance I got a little tipsy and was dancing to the music and the crowd was so big that it shoved us together and I ended up grinding against him while dancing since he was pushed up against me from behind. He didn't stop me but he didn't dance with me either. When it was over and we were walking back to our cars that we finally talked and he told me that when he's around a girl he likes he doesn't act like himself and commaented that I'm a bubbly person and that I'm simple but not plain and I wasn't sure if he meant it as a compliment. The next day he was smiling at me and teasing me as usual I find it odd that he is all playful and teasing me and flirty when we're at work or at unch but when we're hanging out in a date-like way and it's just me and him alone then he's quiet and very reserved. It's almost like he's two different people. Our mutual coworker/friend teases us and even asked us how many dates we've gone on. Our other coworkers always ask us when we're getting together because they see that we're compatible and get along and per my coworkers that he supposedly likes me. I would greatly appreciate the advice given about what to do.
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reader, mizbeckyz0818 +, writes (3 October 2010):
mizbeckyz0818 is verified as being by the original poster of the question A bit of my question got cut off. I need to add that we hang out a lot after work and go to the movies and out to dinner. We've even gone to concerts in which I met his brother. I'm just confused about his intentions because he flirts with me and teases me when we're working but when we're alone it's like we don't know what to do even though we know each other very well and trust each other. I like him and I think he likes me too but since he doesn't say anything when we're alone, I'm not so sure.
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