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*esirewhitefire
writes:I've recently taken on a new lover. He loves talking dirty in bed. (Which was a surprise...he's fairly conservative.) I'm alright with it and willing to talk back, but I just have no idea what to say without sounding like a cheesy porno. Any ideas? I'd also like to drive him crazy during the day with emails and texts, but again, this is unknown water.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 "hmm that dick goes deep!" "oo yeah, ya own this pussy!" When you guys are going at it, yell out what you want him to do..."shove that dick in!" "oh yeah I love it fast!" Start simple with maybe things you've heard (from pornos too since guys do enjoy them so) and pay attention to his reactions. Compliment his uh...appendage, men love hearing that their "things" are attractive and pleasurable to you. It's that caveman side, knowing that you think they are a virile, fertile mate sets them off! Take a picture of your lips (pouting with lipstick)...send it via text with the words, "Where do you want these?" take a pic of a pair of your panties on your bed (prefferably one he bought you) with the txt, "They're already off for you or I took these off thinking of you."
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 Telling him your fantasies also help. And you can ask him what he is wearing and tell him what you want to do with him.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (3 October 2010):
Go with the cheesy porno lines for starters. You will warm up eventually and it will flow easier and you will know what to say. So just jump into it and say those cheesy lines. Sex is fun as well, so no worried. If you end up making him laugh all the better. You just need some warm up. And then you can twist everything dirty he tells you to fit him in return.
example, he says "You're so hot when you do this or that", then you can say the same thing back.
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reader, desirewhitefire +, writes (3 October 2010):
desirewhitefire is verified as being by the original poster of the question lol, essential. That's a good way to start.
He always says things to me like "Is this what yout pussy needs?" and "
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reader, essential_tee  +, writes (3 October 2010):
lol. well this a fun one for me. i looooveee talking dirty in bed.
a few suggestions...that feels so fucking good, you're getting this pussy so fucking wet, fuck me just like that. that cock feels so good. im gonna cum all over it.
you're so good.....ur making this pussy feel so good....that cock feels so good inside me....yeah just like that.....harder, faster, i love the way you stroke this wet cunt. ur the best, im gonna have to tell my girlfriends how many times u made me cum. there you go, just like that sweetheart, ur the fucking man. lol. just for starters.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): just saying little things like 'f*** me harder' and 'yeh baby i like that' or 'more' just things to encourage him will turn him on. just tell him what you want him to do to you and what you want to do to him, but whisper it in his ear.
and sometimes nibbling his shoulder and biting down on his lip will turn him on so that you dont have to do it in words :P
oh and send him texts about what you want to do to him during the day, im sure he will appreciate it
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