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writes:Theres a boy who likes me, hes lovely and funny, not too bad looking but hes super super skinny, like you think hes just going to break when you see him. He has such an amazing pesonality and I get on with him so well but I think because hes so thin its putting me off him, I like boys who have a little bit of meat on their bones! All of my friends and his friends are pushing us together and kinda pressurising us to be together and I would go for it but I don't know if I feel attracted to him! And I don't know if a relatonship could work for me if I didnt fancy the person, because after all I have friends who are boys who I get on well with but I don't fancy them physically so I'm thinking whats the difference between him and them! But theres the pushing with our friends and I don't know what to do, because I don't want to go out with him thinking my feelings will change then they don't, and then everyone hate me for breaking up with him, but then on the other side of the coin it could work out really well and my feelings could change? I don't know what to do! What are your opinions of the situation? Thank you! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): I feel the same way, there is this guy but he is a bit over weight and he has a hairy bum, which kinda grossed me out. But he has the greatest personality and charm which is amazing. I don t know what to do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2010): he his only young and could be thin now, but later on down the line he could be a right hunk, and wont you kick yourself when you see him again in a few years time and hes looking good with a nice girl on his arm, i do think you have to have that bit of attraction, but they do say its not what is on the outside its whats on the inside, and if you do start going out with him feed him up a bit, i would not let thinness put me off, my man is quite thin and he had a brace, the brace didnt really bother me at all, if anything i was asking quiestions about it, and he was quite comfy with that, so when i first met him i thought oh no hes just not my type at all with been thin, i like something to grab on to, but then when we got talking and dating each other, i forgot all about his thin body and we have fallen in love he now, dont have his brace which woried me a bit when he got it took off thought with his teeth looking tremendous now hes gonna attract the women, but he his a one women man so i am lucky that way, like i am a one man women, its a LDR so we see each other when we can, and he has actually put on some weight which suits him well, cause when he had a brace on could not eat much, but now he his making up for it and so he should... so dont be put off with him being thin, but like i said has to be that bit of attraction, whats that saying beauty is skin deep. good luck
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reader, blondie_1991 +, writes (3 October 2010):
I was in a very similar situation recently to be honest! I woul say if there is some kind of attraction there then you should give it a shot, I mean its not like your agreeing to marry the guy at this stage! give it a shot and see how it goes, I personally have let too many guys get away because of silly, really quite insignificant things, life is too short to let these small things get in the way. good luck :) xxx
ps if you want any more advice from my experiences just private mail me, i will help all I can but obviously dont want to share everything publically :P x
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