A
female
age
30-35,
*hronowind
writes: HOw do you attract and get an older guy? im 18 in a few months and he will be 23 by the time i become 18. he wants to wait till im legal to pursue a friendship and what else might be to follow. i was just wondering if there are any small tips or pointers on how to keep him interested in me once we hangout again.. Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Well, firstly, you are 18, I figure thats probably enough.
But it sounds like you are going into a relationship with an unequal power arrangement.... he's telling you he wants to wait, your are mooning about attracting him.
Don't do anything stupid...
A
female
reader, aunt honesty +, writes (4 October 2010):
Just be yourself, he sounds like a reasonable and sensible guy for waiting until you are 18. So just be yourself and get to know him slowely dont rush in to sex to quick, make him wait a while. Good Luck.
...............................
A
female
reader, Time wont let me go +, writes (3 October 2010):
It's not really any different then any other guy. It really just depends on the guy and what he likes and who he is. If your friends with him you know what he likes. Just Trust yourself if he likes you it will work if he does not like you nothing will happen. If he is really waiting he is interested in you, and he wants something with you.
...............................
|