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*weetgirl04
writes:My ex boyfriend and I broke up a week ago, due to my bad habits i guess or so he says. He said he was tired of the little petty stuff i did and that they added all up and he cant deal with it anymore. I love this man with all my heart i wrote him a 6pg letter telling him my feelings but he said it didnt matter he was done. I will do anything for him and i know i have to change my ways no doubt but im working on that. He told me he wantes to be friends.....i would love to have that to...he is like my best friend. After a wk he decided to txt me and ask if i wanted to have sex well of course as much as i love him i wanted to and did so. I am just curious if there is any hope we will get back together. I want him to love me like i love him i know i didnt show it to him in the past but in the end it takes a big setback to show u who u really care about. he kept calling me baby and told me what he has been doing and told me he wasnt out looking for another girl so im so confused i have not went looking for another man either bc all i want is him.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 October 2010):
 I would not be too optimistic. And if this is your best friend, I can't imagine what are your enemies like !
Reality check. He breaks up with you, for whatever reason,legitimate or not. Fine. Then he comes back to you- for sex only. That means thet he does not misses you, he misses some parts of your anatomy that he has not been able to replace yet.
I think he would like to draw you back as his FWB, and I think that if you accept this kind of "demotion " you are looking for heartbreak.
I imagine that you think, if you have enough time and chances to hang out with him, you might be able to rekindle the flame and restart your relationship as it was. Which cannot be even totally excluded, of course- it's not impossible, yet it's very very improbable. And in the meantime you would live in a nightmare of jealousy insecurity anxiety and unfulfilled yearnings.
Perhaps your slim chance is not worth going through this.
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