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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I said yes. We had a time where we both liked each other but nothing ever happened cause he ended it. Now, after he asks me to HC, he sometimes ignores me and openly flirts with my friend (and they both had a time where they liked each other too). I know we're just going as friends...but I can't help but to feel like I'm an option to him, like he would've asked my friend if she wasn't taken. I still kind of like him. How do I get over this? And does this mean he doesn't like me?
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reader, essential_tee +, writes (3 October 2010):
if i was in your position i would go by myself. it doesn't seem like he's that into you anyway, so you'd only ruin a night that is supposed to be memorable by going with him. i wouldn't be surprised if he even flaked out on you and said he didn't want to go to the dance with you anymore. he just seems like the type who is not that considerate of other people's feelings, especially if he is openly flirting with your friend. this is an indicator that he doesn't have one ounce of respect for you. save yourself some trouble and find someone else to go to the dance with.
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