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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I are both 19. He has been known as the "macho" kind of guy.. Very cavalier and promiscuous. I have always been the hopeless romantic..One day, we started dating and in the beginning he told me that it was nothing serious we were just casually dating. I didn't necessarily like that concept but I went along with it.We have now been together for 7 months and during our relationship and it's progression, he has told me he loves me and one day he wants to move in together and get married and all that good stuff..Here is my problem: He seems very sincere in all his Words, but his Actions are confusing. Last night we had a talk about "kissing". He says I kiss too much and he isn't that big of a kisser. He says he likes hugs and cuddling, but he's not a big kisser. I thought, huh? But anyways, my point is, he is just not very affectionate. How is someone who wants to be with your for, possibly forever, also the same person who doesn't show you very much love?I'm confused.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): Something is clearly off here. This man may not be used to a genuine feeling in that which you give him when you kiss him. He's used to the casualness as he is promiscuous and any such act is never serious with any emotion. Forget his words, his actions say more and here Id say he's not ready for a relationship as he's scared of any genuine affection. You dont deserve that at all. If you stay with him and try to work this out, it could be a disaster as you have seen some bad signs. In relationships its wise to use both ur head and ur heart and in this case, if ur heart says something is wrong, listen to it and get away. Best to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2010): My gut feeling is that he is NOT the one for you. If you're the hopeless romantic to set yourself up with someone who is known for promiscuity and doesn't even like to kiss, is not a good sign. You are setting yourself up for heartbreak. If it leaves a bad feeling in your stomach, you should listen to your stomach. You should have to feel like its "wrong" for the rest of your life.
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