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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, before I start I have to tell you all that I am bisexual in case you get confused. I used to be in a relationship with this man at my work but we decided just to be friends. After we had agreed to be friends he confessed that he still had feelings for me and later admitted that he loves me. I told him that I have feelings for him too which is true. Recently I met his best friend (lets call him Joe). Joe took us back to his house where I met his little sister (lets call her Natalie). Natalie is two years younger than me and is a proud lesbian. She only recently came out as a lesbian whereas I admitted that I was bisexual over 5 years ago so we ended up talking about our experiences of 'coming out of the closet'. Joe and Natalie's mother was in the room so she could hear our conversation. She eventually turned around and said to me "Will you stop flirting with my daughter. I know you like her but she's got a girlfriend". She started laughing so I knew she was only kidding but I went bright red because I did like Natalie a little (after all we have a lot in common and kind of 'hit it off') but I never admitted it.The next day my friend told me that Natalie had broken up with her girlfriend who she had been in a relationship with for about 7 months. Apparently she had also told her mother that she really likes me. My friend keeps telling me to ask Natalie out because he can tell that I like her and I get on great with Joe and her mum. Every time he suggests it, I tell him that I do not want to go out with Natalie because I love him. If he loves me then why does he not want us to get back together and why is he trying to convince me to move on? Please help me
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2010): to me sounds like he could be telling you he does love you but not in a girlfriend boyfriend way. and feels you and his sister may be good for eachother. or he could be tryn to see if you would ask out his sister or tryn to see if u like her. i know that doesnt help much but i cant really say. i can just give u my advice on how i might of took it. you love him so ask him why? and if u want to be with him tell him and see where his head is. im wondering why he would push his sister on u knwn he once was with you. i mean it would hurt me if my family member went out with my ex. i knw thats not much but hope in some small way it helps.
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