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writes:I had a relationship with this guy over the summer that ended do to the distance between us but we still talk and get along really well. I guess you could say we still act like boyfriend and girlfriend just without thte title. When ever we see each other its like we start off where we left off from the last time we saw each other and neither of us are seeing other people. The other day though he has said his priority is money and without it he will not have a happy life makeing it his number one priority. I love his drive for success but it makes me wonder if im a priority to him or just someone whos taking up time. Im 19 and hes 21. Im still in school which causes the distance and will be here for the next 3 years but after im done i planned on heading back home to where we would be close together. Im just wondering if im holding out for a reason.
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Well, the way I see it - you now have 3 years to figure yourselves out. You've got 3 years to go to school, date some people, get more in touch with yourself... and he's got 3 years to make all that money and figure out his priorities more. He's 21 years old, and yes his priorities will be a little more self-involved until he's ready to settle and not be a bachelor.
I think you are holding out because it is the smart thing to do. Give yourselves 3 years to grow and do your own thing... then you can give it a try! If you keep in touch, you'll have a great base friendship (which is crucial to a solid relationship down the line). Good luck, sweet!
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