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writes:So this is gonna sound kind of dumb, buttt when you're talking dirty during a blow job or sex or whatever, what exactly do guys like to hear?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): LMAO at Dirtballs post.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 November 2010):
 I expect that anything you say DURING a blow job would sound kinda like "muph pluf sohte". I guess if a guy can actually understand what is being said he has other things to be concern about. Not that size matters though.....
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 November 2010):
 I hear you anon. I remember having "by the way, I swallow" whispered in my ear just before she went down... I could barely contain my excitement. Until she started. I think she was trying to suck my testicles through my penis. God that hurt. I jumped off the damn bed. Such a disappointment.
Sultry voice is great. Moaning or humming while you're sucking is also great because it causes additional vibrations.
Excited exclamations are also great. "Oh my god, you're amazing!" never gets old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): I think I am a very auditory person and "dirty talk" is one of the biggest turn-ons for me. Few things turn me on more than hearing a woman vocalize exactly how she feels, what she likes and what she wants me to do and what she will do to me.
But when it is done too crudely, it is a turn-OFF. Loud and crude sexual demands or even orders can ruin the mood when they lose their sensuality and make you feel like you are with a cheap prostitute.
Moaning is great but actually hearing the right words is dynamite.
Funny (embarrassing) story: while making out with my girlfriend, she very erotically said "I want to suck the cum out of your hard cock". This had such an exciting effect on me that I had an orgasm before she even touched me.
So be careful ladies, don't underestimate the powerful effect female words can have on the unsuspecting male :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): I'd feel a bit awkward "talking dirty" during sex. I'd be too embarrassed and have no idea what to say. I think heavy breathing and moaning would do just fine.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 A word of advice: When administering a blow job, a guy doesn't want to hear anything but slurping ;-)
Gentle, passive sighing and moaning does it for me, by the way.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Hahaha, you shouldn't be talking dirty during a blow job!
Anyways, I vote for silence..men like to hear heavy breath, their woman moaning, and the movement of intertwined bodies.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 November 2010):
It depends on the guy, but I always like hearing about how big I am, or how much you love it (lies, I know but it's still nice to hear). I like it when a girl tells me what she wants me to do to her.
It all depends on your comfort level and what he's into. You could always get more hard core if that's what you like. It all depends on the boundries you're comfortable with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): Has to have good timing...cant just be stated in my opinion but a very good idea and can be a huge turn on for sure.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Dirty talk... ergh... major turn off for me.
Having a girl trying too hard, getting her words muddled and basically blurting out that she was going to "stick her d*ck in me"...
Hilarious and scarring at the same time.
Pretty much ruined dirty talk for me forever.
My general rule of thumb... louder, does not mean better and an occasional sultry whisper is better than constant torrents of "dirty words" in my opinion.
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