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writes:Hey guys listen up! i wanna know how to give an amazing blow job. i don't know why but i feel like my boyfriend really misses them and i want to give him cause i haven't gone down on him in like 6 months and im afraid i might be a little rusty. so help please? D:
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reader, hannahox  +, writes (7 November 2011):
The bottom line is this: you need to do two things, first, cultivate the right mind set and two, get your techniques down.
If you're not enjoying yourself then your partner is not going to enjoy himself either. It's so important to learn to love giving head and give it in the right spirit. It's about freeing yourself and your sexuality, as well as learning to give and take, this means learning how to be submissive and how to take control too. Sex is a wonderful experience if you allow your inner femininity to shine through. It's about submitting and yet gaining power through submission. Very paradoxical indeed.
Once you've got the right attitude and you're eager to get dirty, you're going to have a blast, giving head isn't a chore anymore, it's an adventure in giving pleasure and learning to addict your man to your incredible oral skills. Now, we've got to sharpen those skills, ladies. And, the first golden rule, is no teeth. Never ever. Teeth are the enemy of the great blow job. You can find more about teeth in Jack's Blowjob Lessons ( http://www.jacksblowjoblessons.com/ )
Create solid barriers between your teeth and the penis with your lips and your tongue so that no matter what you are not going to be risking a nicked cock and a tap on the shoulder. Next, it's time to learn how to suck cock, that's right it's not a blow job, it's a suck job. So suck away, pretend like there's money in there and you want to go shopping.
But, don't clamp down and suck too hard, ouch, that can be painful as well. It's about finding the perfect balance. You'll accomplish this by reading your guy's expressions and breathing. If he's breathing heavy and his face is all starry eyed, then your pressure is perfect. You can keep him in this heavenly state as long as you like.
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reader, smiliek  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Well i'd say the guys have covered it. Haha. My hubby loves it when i take him in as far as i can, even if only for a little bit. Also moving your head sideways so his penis is hitting your cheek (not too often, good for a bit of a break tho, stops your mouth hurting). Going up and down with him in your mouth at different speeds (imagine what its like when you're having sex, different paces) Experiment with suction, gentle thru to hard. Hubby sometimes asks me to suck the very tip really hard just as he's about to cum. Might not be for every guy tho so get your bf to tell you as you're experimenting as to what he likes best.. Also using one hand moving up and down, one gently playing with his balls, and your mouth around the top using the tongue flicking seems to be popular.. Just listen to your bf. Even if its just his breath changing, you'll soon pick up what he is loving over the rest. Although, i think guys generally just love bj's! Haha. Have fun
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reader, TimmD +, writes (24 November 2010):
 ***USE YOUR HANDS***
Lots of girls think that using your hands are cheating. It's not. Hands are good.
- Keep it wet and slippery down there
- You don't have to suck as hard as you can
- Glide over the penis with your mouth and hands
- USE YOUR HANDS
And finally: Have your boyfriend talk to you while doing it. Only he can tell you what feels good and what doesn't. As dirtball said, each guy is different.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Hmm, 6 months! I guarantee he misses them!
Every guy is different, but as long as you don't hurt him, he will likely enjoy it on some level.
Some tips. Lots of tongue. You can do so much with your tongue. Licking, swirling, flicking, in your mouth, out of your mouth, it all feels really good. Licking along the shaft is great and can give your jaw a break. Flicking your tongue on the underside of the head of his penis also feels great. I love feeling her tongue moving around on my penis when it's in her mouth as well.
Gentle suction. You don't want to suck too hard, but some gentle suction will increase the friction your lips put on the shaft increasing his sensation.
Use your hands. Gently use your hands to aid your mouth in stroking the shaft. Using one to gently play with his balls is also a good technique.
Suck on his balls. Some guys like this, others not as much, but it is very pleasurable if he does like it.
Tell him you want him to direct you or tell you when something you're trying feels really good. That way you can make a mental note of what he likes for next time.
Lastly, don't wait so long in between going down on him. That way you won't get rusty and he will love you for it!
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