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writes: I was with my fiance for five years, when suddenly he decided to end it. He wasn't happy! We lived together. I'm finding it really hard to move on, I can't seem to get him out of my head. We kissed last week, spoke of getting back but of course there was alcohol involved. the next day he had completely changed his mind. I've cut off all contact from him, blocking him every way i can think of apart from by phone number. I jst want to feel happy again, it's been four months. I don't think I fancy him anymore but the thought of him with someone else absolutely kills me. Will he forget me now we're not in touch? Will we ever get sorted? Is it time to move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your answers. Appreciate you taking the time to respond. I know in my heart that it's time to move on but why does he want to stay in contact with me?? I definitely don't feel the same anymore but I don't think he'l regret his decision until it's too late. that's if he'll regret it at all! he's definitely changed since we've split, more interested in going out every night with the boys and leading the single life.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 November 2010):
Agreed with the others. This is well and truly over. Best move on now for your own sake.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): Its over, you know it, you just need a little time. You need to get a bit of confidence back. You are a a gorgeous girl you know you deserve much beter.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 November 2010):
Definitely time to move on. He will likely never forget you, just as you won't forget him, but it is time for you to give up on this relationship. Whatever his reasons, it doesn't look like things will change. Cutting him out of your life is definitely the right choice.
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