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writes:so I called my gf several times and she never answered. So I went to investigate turns out she has been on tiny chat the past 5 hrs with some oher guy. Then she finnaly picked up and I asked her about that, she told me they werent flirting, my ass she just added him to her friends list, They where speaking spanish with each other so I cant undestand what they were saying. I dont know what to do anymore, I a deployed and it seems that I am not enough for her. Anyone think I should just give it up and move on now?SO I am just saying im deployed comming home in a few weeks and my, ex girl now could not hold out. That is some f***ed shit. So I finnaly said f**k it and broke up with her. The messed up, part is that she dident answer untill I kept trying to call her, she dident cherish our time we had and I felt used, and was always put to the side when someone called her. So now I am done with her, and her giving me bull shit and lieing to me.Thanks for everyones advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): You're better off without her. Enjoy the time you have with your friends when you get back.
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 She should value the time with you before you get deploy, and she didn't and hasn't. That should show you that you are not priority in her life. Move on you be better off!
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 I think you already have answer to this one.
Just stop contacting her and move on to find someone who appreciated you for who you are.
Good Luck!
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