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When I'm not with him I miss him, but when I am with him, I can't think of what to say!

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Question - (24 November 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *it-Kat writes:

I have a boyfriend and it's being going great, been going out a month now. the trouble is, when im away from him, i miss him, but when i see him, i cant think of a thing to say to him! im worried that he thinks im getting bored of him! what can i do?

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A male reader, LovelessAct1 United States +, writes (24 November 2010):

Is he the shy type? If he doesn't initiate conversation, then maybe you'll need to put a bit more effort into it. Just ask him simple questions; how was your day, how was class, ask him about any activities he's been doing, about his friends, etc. Pretty soon you'll be talking plenty.

The key is to not let the conversation end. As he's talking, be listening, but at the same time thinking of a follow up question. Soon your conversations will become more natural as you become more comfortable with one another.

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