A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: im seeing a guy from a different country (exchange student) and he calls me his girl friend after one night drunk and then again sober two days later... am i his gf or is there a translation issue?
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reader, Abella +, writes (24 November 2010):
Do you really want to be his girlfriend?
What special qualities do you see in him?
Do you really like him?
Because you don't have to agree to be someone's boyfriend if he doesn't really inspire and delight you.
And your caution is good. 'girlfriend' could just mean he's adding you to whole crowd of girls he likes as friends. Just friends. With no thought of a romantic component
Look at his actions and deameanor towards you, when he is around you, to help answer your question..
Does he act like a boy friend? Does he find opportunities to be with you, keep in touch, want to share his lunch break with you? Does he Say nice things to you
When he is sober?
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