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Does he just want to use me?

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Question - (24 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 November 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, *horty1234 writes:

okay there's this guy that i really like maybe even love but he has a girlfriend.he knows i like him and he like me as well but likes is girlfriend more so we have been just keeping it as friends.we talked almost every night til about 11:00pm and that's when he started telling me he really liked .then he started talking about how he wanted to kiss me then it went to wanting to have sex.but then just last week he stoppped texting out of the blue and won't replay any of text and won't talk to me he won't even sit next to me but one day i went up to him and asked him what was going on.he said that he didn't want to hurt his girlfriend or me and he didn't want to end up cheating on her so hes being careful .but every now and then I'll get a text for him asking if I'm mad at him which I'm not .when i am with my guy friends he freaks out and doesn't want to hang out with them.he will always ask me if i still like him and ask y like him and if i like anyone else.i guess what I'm asking is do u think he likes me or he just wanting to use me and if he likes me the way he saids he does is he worth waiting for????

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A female reader, QuirkLady United States +, writes (24 November 2010):

QuirkLady agony auntDon't wait around, Miss I Know He Has A Girlfriend But I'm Gonna Flirt With Him Anyway Because I Want Him For Myself. Leave him alone and focus on single guys.

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A male reader, Jmtmj Australia +, writes (24 November 2010):

Jmtmj agony auntIf he wanted you he'd be with you and not his girlfriend.

End o' story.

Don't give in to any advance he makes, he's just been testing the waters with you.

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A female reader, xanthic United States +, writes (24 November 2010):

xanthic agony auntLet's say he does break up with her and starts going out with you. Do you really think you'd be able to trust him, in spite of knowing he wanted to have sex with you while still with his previous girlfriend?

He's already shown his true colours, and is definitely not worth waiting for. There's no reason for him to keep telling you he still likes you while dating someone else, but I'm guessing he does that so you'll stay interested in case things don't work out with his girlfriend. If he really did want to be with you, he'd break things off with her rather than string you along. Don't let yourself become his backup plan.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010):

~UNACCEPTABLE~

He is being very direspectful of both you and his girlfriend.

Tell him to fk off.

He is dishonest, untrustworthy and does not respect others, including himself!

You are number one or nothing!

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