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writes:Hi well i had been going out with this guy for about three years only it has always been on and off. We have been through a lot and we have over come many things over the past years. There have been problems with my family because they don't approve of him. I get along great with his family and sometimes i feel bad because i know my family can be a bit unfair with him. Anyway, we just broke up again about a month and a half ago. I was going through a hard time because there was a lot i had to deal with, i guess i was kind of taking it out on him. I felt confused about everything and i felt that i didn't know what i wanted anymore. My mom got to me and told me that i needed to take a break from him that he was distracting me from my goals. One day i broke down and we got into a big arguement. It ended with him telling me that he wanted the best for me and if that meant he had to let me go then he would do it. I told him that maybe that was the best thing and that was it. About a week later i started to realize what a huge mistake i had made. There wasn't a day where i didn't think of him and all i wanted was to be with him again. I started writing him, but he wouldn't respond. Then one day he wrote back saying that he would always have me in his heart but that i needed time away from him because i had so much going for myself. He said he wanted me to have the best i could and that maybe one day we'll be able to be together again, and in the end he said he loved me. A week later i saw him at a party and i tried to stay as far away from him as i could because i wasnt ready to talk to him. He was flirting with a girl i very much dislike and he knew that because i had had problems with her before. Later he came up to me and acted like we were great friends. I couldn't just forget everything we had and i couldn't act like there was nothing wrong. I told him i needed more time before we could be friends. After that he didn't talk to me. It broke my heart to see him with her though. I dont know what to do. I feel like this time it really is over and i dont want to let him go. I am still in love with him and i dont know what to do to get him back. It kills me to not be able to talk to him everyday. Could somebody please give me some advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni decided to let this go. Maybe this is what he wants and if it is then i accept his decision. I mean i obviously love him and he knows that but i dont know, it just seems like he's forgotten all about me. I obviously didn't mean to him what he meant to me. He doesn't want to talk to me so im not going to presure him to. It just breaks my heart that after three years this is how things end. Now i only wish i knew how to forget him because it seems impossible. I think of him everyday and i feel stupid for it, but i dont know how to get him out of my head.
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reader, babycakes345  +, writes (25 November 2010):
umm well im 14 and me and my bf r off and on too but he only wants the best for u can u real;ly blame him
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