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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey im in this long distance realtionship. this is the first time i have tryed this and had lots of thought before. we havnt been together long about 4 or 5 months and everything was goin well unitll the other day when i went out on a night out ever since hes been acting different. we have been trying to arrange when to met up again and decided it would be this weekend, but now everytime i bring it up, it sounds as if he is tryin to make excusses to get out of it. as today he said "what time train u catching home because iv got to see my brother at 12" or "you sure you want to come down because i want mind if u dnt". hes changed in other ways to as he never texts unitll the night and when i phone he doesnt pick up. i know it might sound silly but i have feelings hes found someone else or just cant be bothered, iv confronted him with this and al he says is that you are you trying to make an arguement. i do like this boy alot but should i end it before i get hurt or should i give hima chance ???
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reader, Kimmy Kim's  +, writes (24 November 2010):
 um well ive been in a long distance realationship before but only once and it didnt turn out so pretty becuz everytime i tried to say something he would say are you trying to start an argument it was in the like 3rd month we were together and then in the 4th month he broke up with me and he said i can't trust u. but before he broke up with me he put a pic on facebook of him and this girl but i let it go and i didnt do anything and i pay the concequence so i suggest you to break up with him. becuz right now your second guessing ur self and u dont know what to do so dont gamble just break up with him becuz if u can't trust him he can't trust u and he probabily lost interust in u
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