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writes:I am not sure if I should have intercourse with my boyfriend because I think my vagina is too wide. I had 4 kids, one was a c-section and 3 vaginal. I'm worried that is too wide for him, not sure because we haven't had intercourse yet. Maybe there's a male out there that can say if vagina's are different sizes and if its noticeable, for him when having intercourse, if a vagina is too big. And if it is, does he feel pleasure or not?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): Please dont worry about it just take some action if it bothers you. My biggest baby was over 9lb. But due to always doing kegels i could crack a walnut down there. Get exercising and stop worrying x
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 November 2010):
 Holy crap anon! 10 pounds 2 ounces! OUCH! Good on ya. Stuff like this never fails to impress me. Wow.
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reader, Ellen_906  +, writes (24 November 2010):
If you havent had sex he is probably worrying about whether he is big enough, most guys do. If you are really concerned you could go to see your nurse who will do an internal and tell you what she thinks. Lots of women have had 3 or 4 children and they are fine so there is no reason you shouldnt be. There are all sorts of things you can do, exercises or the use of cones if it is a problem. I think you would feel anxious whether you had 4 children or not as its new for you both. Maybe wait a while until you know him better and if you feel more comfortable with him you will be able to talk to him about it. I am sure he will be able to put your mind at rest. You are not alone in feeling like this but the main thing is you do something about it and dont bottle this up inside.
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reader, alternaterealities +, writes (24 November 2010):
 You are being entirely too self-concious of yourself. That is no reason to hold back on sex anyway as doing so would surely not make for a happy man.
Don't forget, guys have to fret over their equipment too. Just saying. If he has a little penis it doesn't matter how wide your vagina is. And if he has a really big one, it's probably a bonus. He's probably going to wonder how he compares to other penises you've had before. And it's funny. Usually it's the woman worried he's going to have a tater tot down there and not this scenario.
Sex isn't all intercourse either. There are lots of ways to arrive at pleasure with one another but one of them isn't stressing yourself out over your vagina. Your vee jay jay has probably tightened back up too.
Don't deny yourself pleasure over this please. Now go dance and sing and get up and do your thang.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): I'm average and my ex wife and mother of 2 was a bit more "open" than other women I've been with. It was the best sensation. I loved the gliding feeling of her over me. I dont like tight vaginas as a result. I find they squeeze the blood out of my wang and can make me less hard. The swelling from being hard is what usually makes me orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): Do kegel exercises....google it if you need instruction. I've had 3 children, my largest son was 10 lbs. 2 oz and I delivered him vaginally. My boyfriend says I am the tightest woman he's ever been with...maybe he's just trying to be nice, but I do kegel's at every stop light when I am driving :)
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reader, dirtball +, writes (24 November 2010):
The nice part about a vagina is that it's adjustable. I seriously doubt it's too wide. If you're concened about it there are exercises you can use to strengthen the muscles around your vagina so you can control the tightness.
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