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male
age
30-35,
*ballfan
writes:I need help dealing with being so insecure. My girlfriend has a lot of male friends. Were both in highschool so she sees them everyday at school and talks to them ect (we both go to the same school to). When we walk in the halls together guys are alwase saying high to her, or she is saying hi to them, and all of her stories are about guys. She never hangs out with them out of school. She also is alwase on facebook, she's spends hours on it, and idk what she's doing, checking some guys page, flirting?? I have no idea and that drives me crazy . And a few times I've been over she was on it for a few min, and when I looked at the screen it showed all of the minimized chat boxes. There was like 4 and they were all guys. I've told her how I feel insecure about all of her guy friends, and she told me there's less drama, and more sports talk. I don't want to change her, so how can I deal with this. I get really jelous and stuff when she talks to so many other guys. I can trust her, and that's why I can't understand why I feel like this.
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reader, DanceInTheDark  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 See. Chances are, they're all friend zoned. They're not men to her, they're just friends. Sleeping with them is the last thing on her mind, and chances are she can't even bare the thought, because they just aren't sexual beings to her.
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