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anonymous
writes:Okay, so I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. He has had a hand job and a blow job before. I myself have never given one before. We have only been dating for a month and two weeks and was wondering how long we should date till I should give him one?
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reader, Breonhia +, writes (2 November 2010):
 You shouldnt at all because im your same age and i think thats whay beyond what we should be doing how about going to the movies and hanging around that park not doing older stuff that we have no buissness doing think about yourself it only takes one time to become pregnant and at this age it would be bad for the child and you and think about your parents is that somthing you think they'll approve of if they knew or caught you doing i think you should take your time and enjoy life right now and if he pressures you into doing it hes not the right one because someone who cares would wait until marriage
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2010): Agree with YouWish above.
Watch a few episodes of MTV's 16 and Pregnant- how would you deal with it if you got pregnant (and don't think 'oh, it wouldn't happen to me!')
If he pressures you for sex, leave him- he's not worth your respect.
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 November 2010):
 Don't ever think in terms of "should" when it comes to getting physical with a guy. There is never a should, only when you're ready and you absolutely want to. Never give one out of pressure, coersion, or to keep a guy interested in you.
You are very young, and one month and two weeks is not that long, especially as young as you are. If I were you, I'd wait considerably longer to get physical with anyone, because sex is a very risky thing. Once you start on the physical path and he's pressuring you, don't think that his pressure will stop unless you have sex with him, and you're too young to consider pregnancy or STD's.
13-15 year olds contemplating sexual activity is like giving a chainsaw to a 5 year old. It's dangerous and risky, and the pleasure in return is not worth the risks. Don't worry, you have your whole life to have sex and give blowjobs/handjobs. Take your time!
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