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writes:Ok I need some advice. Me and my ex have been together on/off for 4 years.He broke up with me like a month and a half ago and it was because we argued too much :(.I was so heartbroken about everything and even begged him like an idiot lol.2 weeks after we broke up. He told me its over for good, that hes not in love anymore, I am not the same girl he fell in love with, and how we want different things. How can his feelings change in 2 weeks?? Cause he was telling me how much I meant to him before we spilt.So It got a bit messy he suggested we'll be friends and I was sooo hurt I didnt want to be, and it ended in him deleting my number. He also said I hope you find a bf you want and he treats you well, you deserve it :S. So I hadnt spoke or seen him for 2weeks, and I bump into him at my local pub. He asked me like 5 times if I am alright. When we both agreed not to have a friendship :S.. And I tryed to be strong and not have a convo with him cause it would put me back to square one !The worst thing is all his friends and his mom says he still loves me.. they wont stop talking to me about him. Saying how he is an idiot to let me go and how he loves me but fells we argue too much. I dont know who to believe.Its a weird one cause ovbiously I still love him. But he broke my heart. I dont know whether hes means what he says. I ended up texting him the other night to say thanks for asking if i was ok. And he replyed yeah just checking to see if your cool cause you looked grumpy.. and we had a simple convo like how are you and all that and his replys where limited. I wish I knew what was going on in his head, is he just trying to be friends with me. When we broke up before he always ingores me and this time he replys to my texs and trys to say hello when I see him :S:S x
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reader, ElegantAloha +, writes (6 November 2010):
Sometimes people comfort you by saying things to make you feel better, for example his mum and his friends.
If he did still want you he'd tell you :)
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